So, what should the groom (and his attendants) be wearing to a wedding? In most cases, it depends on the time of day that
the wedding is to take place. If the wedding is to be a very formal evening affair, a tuxedo is required. For a morning or
afternoon wedding, the attire of the men will depend more upon a combination of preferance and the type of wedding theme you've
chosen.
For example, the groom should not be showing up in a formal black tuxedo for a wedding on the beach. A lightweight and
lighter color suit would be more appropriate. If you're planning a very casual wedding, then lightweight dress pants, shirt,
tie (optional) and blazer would be appropriate as well.
The groom, father-of-the-bride, and groomsmen should all visit a professional formalwear shop for guidance and information
on the type of attire that is available. Most men don't realize just how many decisions go into choosing a wedding suit or
tuxedo. You'll need to choose from single-breasted and double-breasted jackets; collars that are peaked, notched or shawl;
cummerbund or vest; bow tie, ascot (these are double-knot ties with ends folded over) or a casual tie.
Also, it's very important that everything coordinates with the attire of the bride and bridesmaids, so make sure you know
exactly what they will be wearing and the colors chosen. (Take a fabric sample or a picture of the dresses).
Unless you plan on attending a lot of formal occassions after the marriage, most men are better off renting their formalwear
as opposed to buying it. There are a lot of men's stores that carry large selections of wedding attire and they will do alterations
on rented suits. However, before you rent anything, make sure you know what comes with the package. Do you need to buy the
cummerbund and/or vest? Are the shoes included? What about the tie and shirt? Make sure you get a written receipt that states
what is and is not included in the rental.
The groom and other gentlemen should be measured for their suits approximately three months before the wedding. For any
groomsmen who live out of town, they can go to a local shop for measurements, then send the information to the groom so he
can set up the rental. Please make sure your ushers understand that they are not to make their own rental arrangements in
another city. You will have no way of knowing if they actually picked the correct suit, color, or accessories until they show
up for the wedding, at which point you will have one very unhappy bride - not a good thing!
The groom should look after all the rental arrangements at one store only. Any groomsmen coming from out of town should
arrive at least 2 to 3 days before the wedding for final measurements in case there needs to be last minute alterations done.
Most rentals can be picked up a day or two in advance. Check the suits/tuxedos over carefully before leaving the store
with them. Look for any stains, rips, snags or possible cigarette burns. Everyone should try their suit on to be sure it fits
properly and the length of the pants and jacket sleeves are correct. Be sure to wear the shoes you will be wearing at the
wedding for this. Check the cuffs and collar for frayed material, and make the jackets don't have any buttons missing.
After the wedding, the bestman usually returns his own and the groom's suit to the formalwear shop by the next business
day. The groomsmen are responsible for returning their own suits, also within the next business day to avoid late charges.
Small food or beverage stains can usually be removed easily enough, however if a suit is heavily damaged, be prepared to pay
for it. So fellows, be careful during the wedding!
Rose Smith is the owner of Wedding Themes and More, a website designed to help you discover your perfect wedding theme.
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