Bridal showers are fun occasions with a purpose of literally showering the bride to be with love and affection. It is an opportunity for family and friends to spend some relaxed time together before the big day and reminisce on the happy memories shared. And while a bridal shower can be a surprise party, it is still good to think of the bride's preferences and include her into the planning of the bridal shower as well.

The guest should include close family members, friends or co-workers, however it would not be wise to invite someone who has not been invited to the wedding itself. Bridal showers are usually afternoon events, it can be a tea party at home or light lunch in a fancy restaurant, it can be a party focused on the activity the bride enjoys or a day of pampering at the local spa, the options are limitless.

Bridal shower can have a theme, but as with everything it is good to take into consideration the personality and temperament of the bride when deciding on the theme. The more classic themes for bridal showers would be for guests to bring kitchen items or items that will come useful once she begins her married life. Travel theme can also be a focal point of the shower, either a theme centered on the honeymoon location or bride's country of choice. But also theme can be as simple decorations and food in her favorite color. Anything goes these days, so planning a bridal shower has never been an easier tasks.

Bridal shower games are also another thing to consider. In case there is a bigger group of people some of which have never met, bridal shower games can be a good way of breaking the ice and promoting interaction. In case it is a more intimate gathering, guests might prefer games that would involve sharing memories or decide not to play games at all, but to use the opportunity to catch up with each other. It would be wise to plan a few games ahead, the important thing is, like with any other party, to go with the flow.

In keeping with the theme of the bridal shower, guests can be present with a bridal shower party favors, both as a thank you gift for taking part, but also as a memento of this special celebration.