• Find
a Good Listener
It doesn't matter how many times you shared your problems and stress with
your closest friend, they do try their best with "don't worry.' That is really helpful, isn't it? Is it advice
we are looking for or are we actually looking for an outlet to release all this emotion? Will telling us what to do prevent
us from feeling helpless and trapped? Do we really need to hear "don't worry"? What we really need is a listener
who is prepared to listen and understand and to show empathy. We need a shoulder to cry on, so find that person at the very
beginning of your plans.
• Nothing Goes Well
You get excited
knowing nothing can spoil your day. That is what a sane person would do. Now, if you allow yourself to accept the fact that
things can and will go wrong, you will have a more perfect wedding compared to the person that thinks nothing can go wrong.
• Breathe
When you and your loved one comes together, leave the wedding and anything
referring to it out your conversations. Talk about anything, but make sure the wedding stays out of it. Keep it like the old
days.
• Relax
Don't obsess about your wedding too much or
so that it starts to affect you in a negative way. Always remember that you have your family and friends, so spend time with
them. Tell them about your wedding, if they want to know, and you will find it an excellent way of how to handle wedding stress,
wedding planning.